July 2001
| Editorial |
| The right solution for the right partner |
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The cases of the couples we have to deal with are extraordinarily diverse, but the success factors in solving dual career issues are generally linked to our ability to understand their needs. Some come to us for a quick job hunt, others expect clear answers and counseling to see what their professional future should be. This flexibility in our approach has enabled us to achieve a success rate of 83 % of dual career issues resolved in less than three months. As shown in the graph, you can easily distinguish possible
strategies by placing your partner along the "motivation
to work" axis, and the "time vs. expatriation"
line. With those partners highly motivated to work, cases where solutions are left till later are much more complex. The partner 'discovers' our services after maybe six months of isolation in the new host country. In such cases our task is often, in the first instance, a matter of psychological counseling and healing the wounds left by a job search that produced nothing. For the two lower "areas" , where the motivation to work might not be there, information is the key and often comesbefore any action. These partners need counseling and time to figure out what level of professional involvement fits into their global picture. Listening and talking with them will help them survive the early isolation shocks. Only 70 % of these cases will enter one of our "Career Programs", while 30 % will eventually decide not to become active professionally. Yes, partners' expectations are diverse, and the worst thing to do is to offer the wrong cure for the pain! |
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| Expert Opinion |
| Reflections on First Time Expatriation... |
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I am pleased to say that with the most support coming from my husband, (who is the unsung hero of this saga) we decided to go for it in spite of all the obstacles and become first time expatriates. We had a blissful moment where we were giddy with our decision. Then the enormity of our decision hit us hard. We would be moving to a more expensive city and going from two incomes to one. Our son would have to start his formal education in a new environment and my husband would be taking time off from his career to care for our baby daughter! We persevered and forged ahead on our move. The barriers kept re-surfacing. Neither of us spoke French ('Okay, how hard can it be? we'll learn, right?'). The sheer energy required to figure out life in a new, unfamiliar culture was daunting ('How many types of cheese are there?'). We were exhausted all the time ('Whose turn is it to get up with the baby?'). I worked later hours and regularly came home after our children had eaten dinner and gone to bed ('Mom, is that you?'). Many times I questioned if this upheaval of our lives was worth it. The answer is a resounding YES!! By leaving our familiar and comfortable surroundings and venturing out into the world (literally), we have learned a lot about ourselves. It may sound passé but you are really never too old to learn. In my role as Human Resources Director for Colgate Palmolive European Division, one of my main functions is to enable the movement of people into positions around Europe. Many times, the discussions that come occur have little to do with the position and much to do with the effect of the move on the employee and his or her family. We realize that it is critical to help support the family in as many ways as possible through the expatriation experience. I freely share some of my own experiences with expatriation to help others understand that they are not alone. I look forward to a follow-up note next year to let you know how it's all working out! So far, so good .. |
| Thoughts |
| Take a walk on the wild side? |
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If you are skilled in the meaning of words, you will know that an expatriate is someone who happens to find him or herself "outside the father's country". This endows country of origin with a fundamental value: it is the psychological "reference point" from which a person, like a cat in a new home, starts to explore the world reluctantly or enthusiastically, with sensible caution or businesslike verve. This level of inquisitiveness depends on a curious x-factor that always expresses itself in another type of relationship that can be summed up as follows: "I have to love what I know and am now leaving, in order to love what I do not know and am now about to discover." The degree of mobility in today's world of work is profoundly changing the background to our different cultures. If the "reference" culture for the expatriate is an "open" one, then it will be enriched by the contact with new one - and work with the coach will enrich the relationship even more. But if the culture is a "closed" one, it will react like a frightened oyster, and the coach will have to use all his or her skills to open it up again. The problem is doubly challenging for those expatriate partners who come to see us at Net Expat: they not only have to find work, they also have to combat the feeling that they are on their own. When I coach an expatriate partner, I find that the first
few minutes tell me a lot about a mental attitude that will be
critical to the process of integrating with the new environment.
It is when "the father's country" endows the expatriate with a solid and reassuring culture, and the "mother country" gently and lovingly pushes the fledgling from the nest, that the expatriate and his or her family responds to this wonderful impulse to get a new perspective on life. |
| Testimonial |
| Facing the camera... |
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Before arriving in Belgium from the United States, I knew
that Belgium was full of major companies from around the world.
So, I thought that it would be fairly easy to find a position
as a recruiter for an IT group. I was in for a surprise. After getting my CV written and translated into French and Dutch, it was time to get ready for a "hopeful" interview. I was to do a mock interview. And that could only mean one thing I was going into "The Torture Chamber!" Yes, Alain, preparing for a month, was ready to make me sweat. While facing a camera, he delivered question after question, while the camera was watching every nervous gesture as I squirmed around in my chair. I did find the experience very beneficial, although horrific, especially after we watched the video and I saw the habits, both positive and negative, that I had never seen before. This both gave me confidence in some of my interview skills and helped me notice what I needed to correct for future "live" interviews. By then, after many visits with my coach Sally Walker, I was getting feedback from companies about my CV. I was told that I lacked the language skills or knowledge of the European market. It was true. But this was the surprise that I least suspected. I was at least hoping that the US and British companies, who must surely use English, were interested in me. This was a difficult challenge. This is where the moral support of Net Expat came in. They continued to push, told me to be patient and kept me focused. There were plenty of other companies out there. I eventually did find that ideal position. I am very grateful to my wife's employers, who provided access to Net Expat. They realize that the support given to a "trailing" spouse is extremely important. If the employee's partner is happy, then the employee is happy and productive and therefore, in return, the employer is happy. In the end everyone is happy. |
| News |
| What's up? |
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Net Expat was very pleased to be invited as speaker at the
last CBI-ERC meeting "People management and the bottom line"
in London on 11 & 12 June. Amanda Townshend and Alain Verstandig
conducted a lively session on Dual Career issues. The next day Nathalie Brotchi and Alain Verstandig flew to New York to attend the CRN's "6th Euro-North Atlantic HR Conference", organized in association with KPMG. We were delighted to address a 75 minutes presentation on "Family Issues & Employee Mobility" together with Steve Nord, VP Global Corporate Compensation from UPS. As always, Steve made a wonderful presentation, bringing his nice complementary vision to Net Expat approach. Thank you Steve. During the CRN conference, Net Expat received the "HR award of the year". Two other companies, and a great gentleman from Colgate Palmolive Mr. Phil Berry, were also honored. |
| Survey |
| HR workshp on Dual Career Issues |
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We had a lot of pleasure organizing our last "HR workshop
on Dual Career Issues" on May 29 in Brussels. We had the pleasure of hosting representatives from Delhaize Group, DHL Worldwide Express, ExxonMobil, Janssen Pharmaceutica, Lhoist Group, PricewaterhouseCoopers, Siemens and Tate & Lyle PLC. This workshop was a real success, as indicated by all the participants who rated the workshop as "good" or "very good" (50 % rated it as "very good"). The limited number of participants ensured very interactive and dynamic sessions. On their evaluation forms, participants indicated that they gained a better understanding of dual career issues. They felt they had received tools to identify potential mobility problems and generate best solutions. Here are some of their comments: " professionalism, quality & clarity of information", " excellent benchmarking from participants", "very mixed audience with Expat experience", "not much was missing ". Based on this success, Net Expat will run another workshop in Brussels on August 28 2001 from 8:30 - 12:30. If you are interested in participating, contact us now at workshop@netexpat.com as the number of participants will be strictly limited! |
| Forum |
| Realising Value from International Mobility |
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With companies increasingly wishing to define themselves as
'global', international mobility has taken on a new impetus.
Whereas historically the transfer of technical skills or the
desire to impose headquarters' processes and culture were the
primary drivers for expatriation, today businesses see a culturally
diverse workforce as an essential ingredient of the truly global
organisation. One of several ground-breaking solutions
developed by the Expat Technology Forum on behalf of its Members
is the 'Assignment Value' tool. This allows assignments to be
differentiated according to their underlying business drivers,
thereby helping to ensure clarity in the assignment initiation
process and alignment between the various assignment stakeholders.
It enables the business to justify and manage an assignment in
terms of its value proposition (ROI) rather than simply its cost.
The 20+ current Members of ETF include: AstraZeneca, BP, GKN,
Norsk Hydro, Nestlé, Procter & Gamble, Reuters, Shell
and Standard Chartered Bank. |
| Welcome |
| Net expat UK |
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Having recently returned from the USA, I was very pleased to join Net Expat. I will bring my marketing and development skills to the UK team, adding to the extensive international HR experience of our Programme Directors, Beverley, Sally and Jim. As an expatriate for much of my husband's career with BP Amoco,
I understand the difficulties an accompanying partner is faced
with in a new country. However, I strongly believe that every
partner can make the expatriate years most rewarding. Yes, the
first few months are tough, but with support and initiative,
most expatriate families can make the most of their time abroad
in every sense. Recognising the benefits for long term employee performance,
I have no doubt that international companies will continue to
evaluate Net Expat's range of programmes as valuable tools for
successful global mobility. |